I don’t want to curse her. I don’t want to fight her. I just want to eat Ikea meatballs with my metamour, because she rules. Here’s a love letter that I wrote to my love’s love for Men’s Health. Releasing this into the world wasn’t easy; in fact, it led to a massive coming-out moment to both of our families. But we are lucky to say that after a lot of conversations, not everyone understood our choice, but they accepted it. Thank you to all of my familial allies who spent tireless hours supporting me. Supporting your unconventional family member takes work and love.